Stephanie 7: Stephanie er bekymret for at jeg ikke har skrevet

Hi honey,
Good morning my love, how are you doing with work ? some days now I have not hear from you ,I hope that everything is ok.just to let you know that i miss you so much honey.see you soon my love,have a nice weekend , your baby Stephanie

Jeg må ærlig inrømme at jeg har slitt litt med kreativiteten i det siste, derfor mått jeg ta internett til hjelp. Heldigvis finnes det nettsider med hvor man kan finne kjærlighetsbrev, ferdig skrevet:)

Hi Steph.

I had to rush back to work a few days ago. Luckily I got internet connection at a small cabin we took shelter in. Don't have much time, but I wrote you a little letter:

My dear Steph,

Thank you so much for lifting my spirits this afternoon with a quick mail. My heart is overflowing with
love for you. I miss you desperately.
 
Steph, I care for you with all my heart. I adore you with all my heart. I have cherished and adored all that
you have shared with me, the gentle touch of your hands, your warm hugs, your loving and sensual kisses, the
feel of your soft and smooth skin, the thrill of holding your hand. I am amazed at what you do to my heart.
 
Stephanie, I long for you. I long to see your love and adoration in your eyes. I long to feel the comfort and peace
of your loving arms. I long to feel the sensual passion of your kisses. I long to feel the love and desire of
your tender touch. I long to swim in the warm, gentle sea of your love, to be surrounded by it, to be enveloped
 in it, to draw strength from it. I long to hold you close and never let you go.

   

With all the love of a longing heart,

 
TG

Da lettet stemninga i det vest-Afrikanske hjem igjen. Jeg fikk svar umiddelbart, for første gang har hun byttet emne på eposten hun sendte til: THANKS FOR YOUR SWEET MAIL


Thanks for your sweet mail honey. i know now that even if the whole world were to crumble, you will be my wedge, and i only now sleep and wake of you and feel you all around me and i can feel it so strongly that my spirit is gone ahead to be with you and i am just here in my body, how i will love to sleep and wake up in your sweet and lovely arms, i will only go to sleep now knowing that i will meet you in my dreams and hold you tight there and lips to lips would i have contact with you, be there always for me and i tell you that you have now just the keys to my heart of hearts, i will always love and care for you, kissssssssssss and hugssssss, looking forward to hear from you very soon.Stephanie


Jeg skal ta meg litt på tak nå, og få ut resten jeg har liggende de neste dagene. Stay tuned!

Stephanie 6: Stephanie bryr seg på et vis.

Jeg har jo tidligere vært usikker på om damene mine virkelig leser det jeg skriver. Nå prøvde jeg å legge inn noen ting som burde bli lagt merke til. Stephanie har jo til tider skrevet noe usammenhengende, så det tenkte jeg at jeg kunne legge meg på samme lista.

Hi Steph.

At last I'm back from hunting, no luck this time. He hearkens after prophecies and dreams. We saw two bears but could not shoot them. What do you think about hunting? And from the cross-row plucks the letter G. I think you would like going out in the wilderness and shoot everything that moves. Matt 7:12 is a great sentence, but I have to admit, I think old Matthew was pretty wasted when he wrote the whole chapter seven. You have to be pretty paranoid if you think the pigs are going to attack you, if you give them jewels, as he states in 7:6. And says a wizard told him that by G. His issue disinherited should be; Don't you agree? And, for my name of George begins with G, It follows in his thought that I am he. I understand that you are very christian, and I do respect that, and hope you will respect my norse religion too. We don't have the same god, actually I have several, the coolest in my opinion is Heimdall, actually he's African like you.

As I said earlier I think it's a bit early to meet yet, and therefore it may be a bit early to start planning having kids together. But if you dream, everything can happen;)

TG  

Svaret kom, og var overraskende på mange måter, hun viser jo at hun leser det jeg skriver, men samtidig føler jeg at hun ikke får med seg alt.

Hi honey.
Good morning and how are you today? I have had a nice sleep but none could be measured to been near to you and feeling your heart beat close to mine. I couldn't have wished any better man even if we are still far apart.I am sorry for not written sooner Dear.I hope your week wasn't that stressful as though I haven't heard from you in a couple of days now, since you come back from hunting and it calls for my concern. yes I like hunting but I don't know how to do that hope you will teach me when am with you over there. Are you alright please? Yes I do respect all religion, yes I really do want us to meet if its your wish.so I hope that you will see soon when its ok by you.

So how are you carrying on with work?? Are you in Town or you did travel ? I miss you and surely want to use each and every day to tell you your worth, please stay fine and thank you for been there always for me. My heart yearns to the truth of your body, I wish you a nice week and be sure that someone all the way from the black African race do cares.
Stephanie


Nå skriver hun at synes det er ok med jakt, og lurer på om jeg kanskje kan lære henne det. Jeg stusser likevel på at hun ikke reagerer på at Duke Clarence fra Shakespeares "Life and death of King Richard III" har lurt seg inn i e-posten min. Heller ikke mitt syn på Matteus personlige tilstand da han skrev sitt evangelium har hun bitt seg merke i.

Stephanie 5. Stephanie bedyrer at hun leser hva jeg skriver, og vil lage barn!

Jeg måtte jo sende en mail til, til Steph. før jeg reiser ut i isødet. Jeg konfronterer henne med at hun aldri svarer på det jeg skriver om, men skriver det samme i hvert brev. Hun svarer at hun leser hva jeg skriver, og så fortsetter hun i samme sporet som før. Hvor viktig trofasthet er, hvor viktig trofasthet er og om hvor viktig trofasthet er, etc. Helt til slutt kommer det foresten noe om at hun vil ha barn med meg, jeg tror virkelig jeg klarer å styre min begeistring:)

 

 

Hi

I had the time to check my mail, one more time before we leave for som days out in the ice. I was so happy to see I got a mail from you. But I have to say I`m really disappointed now. You write almost the same in every letter, and it doesn't seem like you read what I write to you. I write to you how I feel about you, and about who I am. I wrote that I think it's a bit to early to meet already, but you are asking when we can meet. I write about myself and my life, and experiences of my friend, and you don't seem to care. To me you look like one of these girls that are more eager to get a boyfriend, than to care about who the boyfriend is. If you want to be my girlfriend, then you have to listen to me. I don't want, or need, a girlfriend that doesn't care about what I say, and only commands me to the sofa and TV if I try to peel a potato. 

As I said earlier, I will be gone for some days. I hope I have a nice letter to come back to.

Mediocre Regards

TG

 Svaret kom etter ca 20 timer. Her bedyrer hun at hun leser hva jeg skriver, før hun fortsetter i samme rennet: Trofasthet er viktig, trofasthet er viktig og  trofasthet er viktig, etc. Det morsomme er at teksten kommer med tre forskjellige fonter og størelser. Får en svak fornemmelse for klipp og lim.



Hi Thomas

Good evening and how has your day been? Thank you for the mail, Yes I read your mail and I understand your mail very well.well I don't want to talk about your friend girlfriend and the experiences he has,because in life there are good people and bad people,so maybe he want to the Wong one.am sorry that its happen like that way. the word you use that to you I look like one of those girls that are more eager to have boyfriend is not good to use it on me.but I forgive you. I thought about all of these today and I wish to express it with you and hear what you think about my idea, you already know that I am someone that wants as much as I am given, I want someone that can love and never CHEAT,someone that knows attentions and above all see the need to share conversation in an open manners

Been natural has helped me to reflect on some Bible accounts and want to share this thoughts with you as I believe in whatever thing that you want peoples to do to you,do to them first as Jesus started at Matthew 7:12.
This has prove practical and so true because if you want love,show love to others first,if you want respect,show respect to others first,if you want understanding,try to see where you can show understanding when others are sharing their views,if you want forgiveness,learn to forgive others when they wrong you,if you want caring,be caring to others and in fact anything you want from peoples,be sure to treat them that way first and they will be moved to return the favor and this is what am found of. I believe that we walk through life and eventually meet someone that will means all to us and this one will be the reason why we are alive,you both will understand each others from the very first message and it would be the best blessing that you have ever wished and have waited all your life.I know am not perfect but am ready to do all that I can to keep my home because no place is better or best,you have to make it good, you have to make it better and that's by been honest to your mate,staying true and faithful,be sincere,be loving always,be forgiven and show concern,be respectful and never let pride eat you up,always be ready to say you are sorry and admit when you are corrected because that one that corrected you wants peace still within the house.

I don't want a man that will provide me the heaven of the earth but just want someone that knows that a woman needs some love and attentions and he's really willing to share with her,a man that wants to stay FAITHFUL to his family,a man that will be sincere and honest.I need a man that will stay true to his wife and family,I need a man that we will both grow old in the arms of each others and I know that this kind of man is hard to find but they aren't completely our of reach,you can still find someone of such kind,those that are good and understanding.
I need a man that knows that marriage is understanding and that marriage must have problems since we are both imperfect,I need a man that knows that misunderstanding within the homes even makes us stronger because at the end we are able to see where we went wrong and can correct them and so will grow in love then,I need a man that knows that marriage is been forgiven and teaching,I need a man that knows that marriage is our ability to look far beyond what we are seeing with our eyes on the other person and see only the good side of our partners.I need a man that knows that for marriage to last forever then we must always be willing to have open conversations,that we would have to share our opinion's on what we think on certain issues. I need a man that will be not only my husband but my friend,we could go places together and hold hands,talk on the way and if we have misunderstanding due to the fact that we are two imperfect peoples we should be able to bring the matter on the table and talk about it immediately and not leaving it for so long before we get back to it because this will help us to carry on and under-mind what the devil could have attempt through the misunderstanding.
I have seen so many wonderful qualities on you and I can't explain to you through the emails, I simply pray that we meet each others someday that I can let you know that this is what you have done to me and this is how I am paying you back, with my love I will tenderly care for you, with my understanding you will know peace with me always, with my caring you will feel young at heart forever as long as we are alive Thomas, with my respect you will always be the Hero Of My Heart. I miss you and I am happy that are doing good over there, don't worry if you couldn't write on time as long as you had me in you mind because i needs that. I simply did miss you and couldn't help it since we are far apart from each others. It tears a loving heart apart that distance hold us in the wreck of our emotions.
Please understand me that everything that I have said here is from my heart and don't feel like I am too demanding,I just wish that you can know all that I want and when you look well into all that I have shared with you now,you can tell that they are not hard,they are qualities that are in all humans, they are in you Thomas and i have seen them already but sad that most of us fail to read the Bible and apply the things that we are reading. I miss you and I hope that soon we will meet each others,
So what did you eat today? I wish that I can cook for you that you don't have to be bordered about that again, share your kiss and feel the debt of the love that you have for us. I hope you have a nice night. I hope someday you and I would have our own children, what do you think about this Idea please? When would this be possible if ever? Waiting to hear from you soon again.
good night kiss from Stephanie.  

  

Nå kommer det til å gå noen dager før det kommer mer her, men stay tuned!  

Stephanie 4. Stephanie er en likegyldig bitch!

Jeg sendte Steph. et brev mandag ettermiddag, her valgte jeg å fortelle om en venn, som ble lurt av en Ukrainsk jente han hadde truffet på nett, og om hvor heldig jeg var som hadde funnet akkurat henne, som ikke var sånn. Egentlig bare for å se hva Steph. måtte ha å si til det. Jeg forklarte også at jeg skulle på jakt, og at jeg kom til å bli borte noen dager:

Hi again Stephanie

My yesterday was fine, because I got a letter from you. You know, I´m so
happy that it was you, that found my email, and not some other.
You know, a good friend of me, got this mail from an ukrainian girl, they
fell in love, or at least he did. She was going to move to Norway to be
with him. He was so kind to her, paid for everything that she needed,
tickets and everything. The day she should arrive, she didn´t come. And he
didn´t hear anything
from her again. Then he discovered that she had been mailing with many
other men too, she had never intended to come. She just fooled him, to get
his money.
Oh, Stephanie I´m so glad that you are an honest girl and not like that
ukrainian girl. Though, I have to say that you must be a bit naive to
belive a girl like he did.

I don´t want no Angel, but for me as for you honesty is very important.
What would you think if I was a fraud? I don´t want to hurt you. I´m so
happy you feel safe with me, it means so much.

I may be away for some days now, going out hunting, but I would really
like to have a message from you in my inbox when I return

Yours, TG

Som jeg etterhvert har forstått er det jeg skriver totalt uinteressant. Som svar på dette fikk jeg nok en gang bare svada som ikke hadde noe med det jeg hadde skrevet å gjøre. Hun vil virkelig møte meg, selv om jeg i forrige e-post gjorde det klart at jeg syntes det var litt for tidlig å møtes.

Hi Thomas

Good evening honey and I hope your day was fine. Mine was good too, am very very happy to hear from you, I hope that we are going to see each other soon? what do you think?  Thomas when do you think we can see each other? I can't say exactly but I know that I feel so sure with you, I feel safe with your thought and I can see myself with so much confident that I am in the right place.like i said.if you want to come over here and see me that we be good.I will be happy to see you soon.because we really need to each other.

Like I said I have to tell you that I have been watching each and ever line of word that comes out from your mouth and they are all matured, that show me a man that wants love, they show me a man that would care for a woman just as much as he cares for himself, they show me a man that is truthful and honest, they show me a man that is not considering his own interest ahead of that of the woman, they show me a faithful a man, a man full of respect and want for others all that he wants for himself.  

I just wish that we are together that I can cook for you,Africa food that I can watch you stand me wanting to help me in the kitchen and I will tell you no, just go back and watch the TV, that I can lay down when it's dark and share a HEART to HEART conversation and I mean just the two of us. 

   I am here so that you can tell me from your heart that you want me, that you love me, that you will be true to me and that you will never hurt me and that is all that I need from me. Love is all that I need, your heart of understanding is all that I need, your faithfulness is all that I need because when you give me all of these, then I am sure to be happy but when you give me money and I don't have the love that my soul wants, the love that my whole body needs from you, I will never be a happy woman in life.  Good night honey waiting to hear from you soon.your Love to be Stephanie.

Jeg har allerede svart på dette brevet.  Hva er det som står i brevet? Står det at jeg vil kjøpe flybilletter til henne? Står det at jeg vil reise til Gambia? Er Gambia virkelig et land? Eller står det simpelthen at dette må leses med Tom Mathisen-stemme? Følg med i neste episode av KATTEN OG KVINNENE!!!

Steph. 3 Hjæm te dæ - eller hjæm te mæ?

Jeg følte jeg måtte bruke litt tid på å svare Stephanie. På grunn av usammenhengende tekst og ikke verdens beste engelsk tok det litt tid før jeg klarte å ta inn over meg hva "hun" egentlig ville. Jeg tror egentlig at hun ville være en godt over middels elsket slave. Jeg prøvde å svare, og la på en god del bullshit.

Hi Steph:)

All well? Hope so. Yes honesty is very important for me to. I don´t want to play games, It´s best to tell everything exact like it is. I try my best never to fool someone, and would never take advatage of anyone. It´s important to know that you can trust the people you surround and have relations to.

I really have to admit, I was not looking for a relationship, but you never know when things will change. When I got your letter, I tried to see my self with a girlfriend, and I must say, the thought is intriguing. It sorts of grows on me. Last night when I just had shot a bear, I thought: The skin would be a perfect gift for a girlfriend. Do you know polar bears? They have a beautiful white thick fur. Fantastic as a rag in front of the fireplace, if you understand ;)

I think it´s a bit early to meet, yet. But maybe, only the time will let us know. I will offer  blood to Skuld, my norse goddes of fortune and future to let her be gentle with us, and do what is best for us. I really like your views on family matters. I´m very conservative, and that doesn´t allways go well whith the modern way of European thinking.

You say you´re not to old, then I have to say I think you´re in the perfect age. To big age difference between at man and woman is not good. You´re in an age where it´s perfect to start a family. You´ve had your years as single. Now it´s time to be bound to a man and his house.

All relationships are about giving and taking. It shouldn´t be only one way. No people are perfect, though I have to admit that I, myself, is very close, and I want my partner to be as good as she can get also. I´m not Christian, I belive in the old Scandinavian gods, and Odin is the allfather. I would recomend last summers big movie hit, the american film THOR, for a great introduction to my religion. Though, I do respect all belives and faiths. All people should be free of mind to belive in what they belive in, and noone should try to take faith from them. I would not mind have a christian partner, and the biblical based principles are a very standard way of living that you find i most religions.

I have been i South Africa, and I would really go back to Africa some time. At the time I can´t afford such a travel, because the global warming make it harder to hunt bears. I belive that money is only money and over time that will not be an obstacke if you really want something. When I find the woman I want to share my life with, I will go all in. But after beeing burned some times, I now really want to know that this is it, first. Like you I´m tired of being hurt. If it after a while feels like you are that woman, I would love to hear the birds singing and the ocean breeze with you.

Love
TG

PS. Send you a photo of me, taken last week, with the trophy of the day

Det tok ganske akkurat 37 minutter fra jeg trykte på send, til svaret lå i innboksen min. Jeg er selvfølgelig litt skuffet over at hun tilsynelatende ikke bryr seg så mye om isbjørnjakt. Uansett er vi litt på gli i forhold til å møtes. Hun ønsker at jeg skal komme nedover på besøk en gang, hvis jeg ønsker det, kan også hun komme opp hit. Jeg lurer på om jeg skal be henne på jakttur en gang. Her er i allefall svaret:

Hi Dear
Good evening and how has your day been? and thank you for your understanding, the love, the caring and the honesty.
  I am going to be a little brief on this message because i want to go home now and I don't like walking out at night, I couldn't help but keep thinking about you,I said let me come and cheek my mail if i have any mail from you and am happy that you mail.  if you want us to meet, be strong in your faith, keep your believe and know that what God have given you(Stephanie) is worth your attention, it's worth your devotion, it's worth your love and all that you could give. I am not saying that I am an Angel but you know yourself Thomas and I know myself, I am not as well saying this that you have to love me NO,I am simply telling you who I am. I have always emphasized on the fact that I am from a poor home but my love is my wealth and why I am saying all of this is because of the distance between us, if we were close, I wouldn't be stressing on all of this because you will see me for yourself and will know if this is what you have been searching all through to find or not.

Yes I want us to meet and if you have to come, I will be happy or If you want me to come over I will do that too.
I can't say exactly but I know that I feel so sure with you, I feel safe with your thought and I can see myself with so much confident that I am in the right place. I have to tell you that I have been watching each and ever line of word that comes out from your mouth and they are all matured, that show me a man that wants love, they show me a man that would care for a woman just as much as he cares for himself, they show me a man that is truthful and honest, they show me a man that is not considering his own interest ahead of that of the woman, they show me a faithful a man, a man full of respect and want for others all that he wants for himself.let see how its we go just know that am here thinking about you.have a nice weekend waiting to hear from you soon.your Stephanie.


Så, det var dagens brevveksling, har noen løse tråder i forhold til nye jenter, forhåpentligvis kommer det flere ganske fort. Stay tuned!
  

Stephanie 2. Om kvinnens rolle som mannens slave

Har ikke hørt noe fra Anna enda, men Stephanie har gitt lyd i fra seg. Jeg måtte først sende henne en mail, for å komme tilbake på tråden. Jeg holdt meg fortsatt til norsk, siden det var på "norsk" "hun" hadde skrevet til meg. 

Ah, selvfølgelig. Det er et band jeg jobbet med for noen år siden. Veldig god rock n roll. Liker du rock, hørte du på sangene? Hvem er dine favorittartister? Håper du har det fint. Jeg likte bildene :)

-TG

Sendt fra min HTC

Jeg fikk svar overraskende fort:

send your pics and tell me more about your self.

Thats it, det var hele teksten, ikke et hei og ikke en hilsen. Jaja, her var det bare å kjøre på. Jeg googlet meg selv og tok de to første bilderesultatene, to bilder fra min myspace-profil, som ble brukt i markedsføring av Høgskolen i Finnmark, for en god del år siden. Deretter skrev jeg en liten tekst om meg selv.

Hi

Should we take this in english from now on? Your Norwegian is not perfect, but it's above average understandable.

So, who am I?

I'm guy pushing the thirties, living up north in Norway, close to the north pole. I'm hunting polar bears for a living. Not that good paid, it's OK, but it's a kick. I really love my job. Every day out in the wilderness. When am not at work, I like hanging out with friends, that's great, but what I really miss is a girl who can lay beside me at the couch, watching the sunday movie at the TV. 

So, thats a tiny bit about me. Can you now answer my questions?

Love

TG

Bare timer etter kom svaret. En laaang mail. Hun skjønte at jeg er en ærlig kar når hun leste mailen min, og det liker hun ved meg. Hun er veldig interessert i å vite hvor langt jeg er villig til å gå, og hvor mye jeg vil ofre for en jente, ikke økonomisk selvfølgelig. Hun er veldig opptatt av at vi må møtes, og jeg fikk telefonnumret hennes, så jeg kan ringe henne når det skal være.

Hi Thomas
Good morning and I hope your day was fine. Mine was alright and I thank our creator for showing us mercy this day,thanks for your mail.I have had so many bad experience in the hands of men hence. It would be nice to really get to know each other, if you wish, I am a very honest person but finds it hard to think that I give my heart to a man and still all that I get is emotional pains and traumas. Regarding your question my favorite artists is Akon and Westlife.

It's one great thing that you talk with someone and in the course always see need to stay honest and that means you should be able to to know each others through the open conversation. I have a deep sense of humor, I am passionate and love music. There are a few thing that I enjoy which includes nature and my best play to stay and have a sober reflection is the beach side. Love to cook and I can say that I am a good cook and can do that at all times. Well, back to your message, it wasn't much but I wish to say that it was full of it's own sense and it shows that you are honest, I thought about it and I could read the heart of a man that wants love,a man willing to show respect to a woman, a man willing to be faithful to a woman.

Yes I am here for a relationship and want someone that we can meet each others in person, this calls for trust and building of our understanding . I have so much to share from my heart and I see relationship as that in which the man should remain the head of the family because I well know that the man is created with ability to head the home, a woman is only but a subject under the man and should be ready at all times to take directives from the man,owe him her deep respect and try all she could in making sure that the plans of the man in life all comes to success. She is a supportive element to that effect.

I may not be too old but I have had quit some bitter experience in the arms of the ones that i gave my heart and till this day i still haven't been able to find a reason why someone that ones said they loves you,could wake up and change without heart feelings, without a second thought as to what happens to the other person. I have been into two relationship that broke up because of unfaithfulness from the men and that's why I have choose to look somewhere else hoping that I can find an understanding heart

It's true that I may not be perfect but i don't like lies and I always believe in those that strive to stay true and honest in all that they are doing even though we are all imperfect,I love those that knows that relationship is forgiveness, I like those that knows that a woman needs some level of attentions and he's willing to share with her, I love those that knows that relationship is patience and it calls for efforts from both of us.I love a man that wants to correct me when I go wrong, a man that knows that Money isn't that which brings happiness in the home but our ability to live our lives by Bible based principles. Are you a Christian please?? Would you like to have a Christian as your partner if you aren't one??


Well,like you may know I am from the Gambia in West Africa and it appears like a quit a distance from your country but there are no limitations to friendship if you ask me.I live with my Aunt and her husband with their two children in Senegal. Do you know Africa and have you been to Africa before?? I am 29 years now and am 5ft 4inches tall, very loving and very open minded, a woman of one man.

I am faithful and very agreeable when it comes to sharing ideas in the family circle.I like to think that a man should be contributing by ways of his reasoning when it comes to the family affairs. I like to think that every members of the house should know their roles and we shouldn't forget our limitations and above all,we should always see the good side of the others person and instead of looking to see what and where the person has gone wrong,we look to see where we can help them to improve and see them grow to maturity, to see them grow to the ones that we would love all forever. I like to think that our happiness never comes from how much money that we have and this is area really is applicable to most men,they only sees money as the ultimate but certainly,how happy are you without a partner even with all that wealth you have acquired?? I am not referring to you please,just trying to mention that there's more to life than a chase after money.


So tell me how much are you willing to give all for her? I am not talking about money here but I am talking about the attention, the love, the caring, the understanding, the sincere and honest acts, the faithfulness, the forgiveness, the long suffering from you both, the deep respect that has to exist between the two of you and many more that makes you both gets along well and fine. How long have you been on a search for a partner? What do you think about the distance because like I said before now, I want a man that we can make efforts as to our meeting each others. We could write millions of email messages but if we don't meet each others, it would be so hard to really understand and see if we are the two hearts that can have a part in life. I just needs someone to love and hold hands as we take a walk through the cold breeze and hear the songs of birds together in one joy and happiness.


I believe that in every meeting there is a sense or something to accomplished and I want to think that you already know I am single and have been never married.My determination is to love and respect my partner,be proud of him and place no one above him in life.I hope reading from you soonest and pray this finds you well. Please be open minded to me like you did start, wish you a nice day.this is my cell phone number you can call me any time. +221 771 399 639
Stephanie.

Her var det så mye å ta tak i at jeg må bruke litt tid på det, men følg med på LOVEORSCAM.BLOGSPOT.COM! 

Stephanie Dennis

Stephanie var en av grunnene til at jeg begynte å svare på disse e-postene. Da jeg mottok hennes brev, fikk jeg inntrykk av at hun prøvde å få meg til å tro at vi hadde møttes i det virkelige liv. Det gjorde meg så oppgitt, at jeg fant ut at jeg ville høre mer om hvordan vi hadde møttes.

Hyggelig å treffe deg.
Jeg fikk kontakt i dag og ble interessert i å kontakte deg, tror jeg fortjener vi å være venner, må du svare meg en gang du mottar meldingen min slik at jeg kan fortelle deg mer om meg selv ..... Jeg har også noen fine bilder for deg hvis du ikke tankene jeg venter svaret snart ..... Ta vare ... Bye, Stephanie

Siden hun skrev til meg på nesten forståelig norsk, fant jeg ut at jeg skulle svare på norsk. Hvis det skal bli noe mer mellom oss, er det jo greit at hun får øvd mest mulig på språket også, for hun virket ikke helt stødig enda:

Hei Stephanie

Jeg beklager, men jeg kan faktisk dessverre ikke huske deg. Hvor var det vi møttes? 

Best Regards
TG

Relativt umiddelbart etterpå fikk jeg dette svaret, hvor hun også hadde lagt ved bilder:

Hei

Hvordan gjør du? Som for meg, jeg er fint takk. En fin godbit å få email.My navn er Stephanie Dennis, aldri vært gift og har ingen children.i har tostatsborgerskap, og halv Gambia Vest-Afrika.men jeg bor i Senegal Vest-Afrika.

Alt er i sinnet. Det er der det hele starter. Å vite hva du ønsker er første skritt mot å få det. Så skriver du en e-post for å se om jeg kan finne ut litt mer om deg. Ønsker første til å opprette et nyttvennskap utenfor sosial sirkel jeg har nå, men hvisden rette mannen kom ville årsak gå for det.
Hvis du gir ditt liv som en helhjertet respons påkjærlighet, så kjærlighet vil helhjertet respondere på you.Yes Jeg er her for et forhold og ønsker noen at vi kan møtes hver andre i person, dettekrever tillit og bygging av vår forståelse

Litt om meg. Jeg liker mange ting, som filmer, musikk, sport, reiser, jeg er en veldig ærlig, oppriktig, snill, trofast, omsorgsfull jente. Jeg er åpen, punktlig, omgjengelig dame. Jeg liker å reise, og alt om naturen. Jeg er en optimistisk,munter person. Jeg har alltid finner positive sider i enhver situasjon.

Jeg misliker å bli lei. Jeg tror at det viktigste i et forhold er å kunne forstå problemer med partneren din. Det er viktig å nyte livet i et godt selskap. Jeg leter etter en sterk, selvsikker mann som vet hva han vil og hvordan man skal oppnå det.

Han må være forståelse og evne til å bry seg omandre. Jeg ser ham som en anstendig, ærlig,omsorgsfull, snill mann. Jeg drømmer om å møteen slik mann, og å nyte livet sammen med ham.Det vil være en mann som kan erobre hjertet mittmed hans enkle smil, og snill hjertet. Jeg har vedlagt mine bilder her. Vennligst send din i din neste mail.Take bryr Stephanie

Da dette virket som et standard 2. brev, og jeg ikke trodde at hun i det hele tatt hadde lest hva jeg svarte, og i tillegg dette strengt tatt ikke var svar på spørsmålet mitt, følte jeg at jeg måtte bli litt streng med henne:

Hi again Steph.
You didn't answer my question. Where did we actually meet? 

Det hjalp tydeligvis, og tre dager senere kom dette:

this is where i got your contact



http://www.myspace.com/betteroffonmonday

Så vi hadde virkelig ikke møttes i RL som det kalles med dagens terminologi. Hun hadde funnet e-postadressen min på myspace. Jeg svarte ikke på denne, men det var før jeg begynte å blogge om det! Stay tuned, for fortsettelse følger!